Here's the scoop:
Tom went to the doctor's on October 21st (Monday) and was told that the previous plan hadn't worked as the leukemia had progressed and was now visible in his blood. They said he needed to come in the following day for treatment and so he did. He did five days of chemo and then a DLI which is a donor leukocyte/lymphocyte infusion (stem cell top up ... basically a miniature version of his transplant, minus the fact that they don't have him on any anti-rejection meds so the risk is a bit higher).
He was in until last Wednesday (30th) and they released him that afternoon. That night, his heart rate was about 160 and his blood pressure was all over the map... he went by ambulance to the ER (which I'd just like to point out that I beat the ambulance ... driving legally of course... by about five minutes). ER didn't know what to tell him as he stabilized and so after about four hours spent in there, they told us to go home.
He had an appointment with the doctor the next morning and was told there that he was going back in. Due to the ER trip and apparently the fact that typically they wouldn't have let someone leave with a white cell count of 0.0 (but did), they wanted to monitor him through what they expect to be full of fevers and possibly graft vs. host disease (what they're hoping for). He's not expected to go home until his counts rebound. Saturday night he had a minor fever, but not enough to warrant blood cultures and starting antibiotics (he went to 100.2 and they do that at 100.4). Today he had a fever of 100.6 so he's got that fever they were expecting and is on meds.
So that's, in a nutshell, what Tom's been up to. Since we've been in there have been a few "hiccups" if I were to put it mildly. Number one, on Saturday October 26th they came in to give Tom some blood (as he was low) what they read aloud was unwashed A+ blood... Tom is undetermined due to his bone marrow transplant, so he requires washed blood so that he doesn't have any reaction and he's on his way to being O- ... so when I asked the nurses to re-read it and they repeated what I'd thought they had said, I asked if they would go double check it because it wasn't correct. I was assured that it was correct and that in fact the doctor himself had written such orders. I told them that there was no way that the doctor would have written that and politely (as much as you can be in such a situation) asked that they go call and recheck because they weren't hanging it until then. Guess what?! It turns out that he was supposed to get washed O-!!!!! So Thank GOD I had stopped them as Tom flat out said he didn't want to "cause any trouble" so he wouldn't say anything!
So they apologized and then a few hours later he got the correct blood as it takes awhile to wash the blood, etc. As if that wasn't enough to get them on their toes and investigate how that occurred.... Monday night (just two days later) it was sometime between 11pm and 1am (an inconvenient time is all that matters, really) and the charge nurse comes in and tells Tom, "Hey, sorry, but it turns out that unit of blood we just gave you ... was the wrong blood. Your nurse was about to hang the second unit and noticed it was incorrect and called the lab and they confirmed." Half asleep I said, "Did you just say you gave him the wrong blood?!" OH MY GOODNESS!!!!!! Luckily it was washed and it was at least O type... but they'd given him positive instead of negative (for those who don't know... positive can receive negative, but negative cannot receive positive). But due to it being washed, those antigens were not present (so we're told) and luckily Tom had no reaction other than his hours of complaining that he felt really weird and out of it. SO, we proceed to tell this guy about the mishap the two days prior and he assures us they'll do all they can to "investigate" this matter, we discussed the SIX TIERS of personnel that blood must go through before getting hung and how NONE of them caught it (total system failure)... he assured us we would be kept up to date on the "investigation", etc.
Did anyone mention this mishap in the morning? No. In fact, it was the following day that he had his DLI treatment and no one discussed with us whether it'd impact it, etc. After the DLI a staff member came to discuss the incident with us and called it an "oversight". That's as much as we've heard on the matter. Blood rant over.
Since then, we have been making a list of things that just aren't jiving around here. One being that when he came back in they put him in a room so small that it wouldn't fit the portable hepa filter (which we'd been told was a must for him) so they just didn't put one in! When I brought it to the nurse's attention, they moved us into another room. They have been all confused and weird about his medications; Some let us store food, others throw it out. Some let us warm food up, others tell us they can't. Some ask Tom to turn off his pushed medicines on the pump, others act as if we've committed a crime. They ask Tom his "ins and outs" and then don't record it, so his nurse reviewing his chart thoroughly asks why he hasn't been to the bathroom in three days or why he isn't eating (when neither of these things are the truth). He had a medical assistant come in last night come in multiple times to stock everything in the room (lights on, things thumping around), change things out, and then (icing on the cake) wake him up at 4 am and ask if he'd used the bathroom, why he hadn't used the bathroom, said she'd bring things over for him to use the bathroom, would bring him drinks so he'd use the bathroom, etc. Finally Tom said, "I just want to sleep!!!!" He then asked for his nurse and requested that between 10pm-7am unless it's nursing staff doing vitals or meds, no one is to enter and wake him.
Those last few paragraphs are only a couple of bullet points on the list of reasons why we may be seeking treatment elsewhere. I won't bore you with the rest of the details... if you're still reading. Just adding this in here after taking a million years to add the photos at the bottom.... they just took Tom's temperature 102 something so looks like we're in for a long night.
On a much lighter note... below are photos from the Cleveland Light the Night Walk in which my sisters, their friend, and Madalynne took part to support Tom. Followed by photos of the Sacramento Light the Night Walk. A GIGANTIC Thank YOU to all of those who participated or donated! You guys made it such a success! Even though Tom couldn't make it, he worked very hard on it and was featured as an honored hero, so it means a lot to us the support we received!!! Enjoy!!!
PS. I will do my best to keep the update more frequent while hospitalized in order to avoid such long updates. :)
Team Cleveland Group Photo, thanks guys!!!!
Isn't she just darling?
Team Cleveland <3
Kathy, Madalynne, Corinne, and Antonia.
Tom with the IV Therapy nurse who placed his new PICC line
Oliver and Tom having an afternoon jam session
David retrieved Tom's picket so we could have it
Emily, Helen, and Lilyana
Helen with the Tom sign :)
Myself and Emily
Teri and me
Me with the picket sign... isn't he handsome?
Sacramento Team Photo! (Scott you're definitely hiding in the back!)
Lily being a trooper
Scott and Teri